We don't forget the pain, we grow around it. With time, we are allowed to ease it, as it's size relative to our beings shrinks more and more.
Still the pain subsists, even as a back echo somewhere in our mind, and too often we spend time and energy trying to force it into oblivion.
But we should focus on growing more, let it be a small black trace in the back of our selves, just a minimal shadowy place we learned to live with.
And if we allow it, with time, this hole that look so big today will be only a figment tomorrow.
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